“More Than Trophies: Preparing Sons and Daughters for Life Through the Mental

Tyler Lennon
Sep 8
3 min read

"True leadership multiplies maturity, not dependency. Son’s and daughter’s are not trophies; they are arrows, launched with precision into nations." – Will Meier

That line struck me deeply—not just as a coach, but as a father.

Because let’s be honest—today it feels like parenting in sports comes with its own scoreboard. We compare what school our kids attend, what club team they made, how many points they scored, or what scholarship they might get someday.

But our sons and daughters aren’t trophies to be measured against one another. They’re arrows, designed to be launched into their purpose. And what determines their future isn’t the name on the jersey or the size of the trophy case—it’s their ability to handle pressure, overcome setbacks, and grow into mature leaders.

The Wall Every Athlete (and Parent) Hits

Every athlete—no matter how gifted—eventually collides with the same wall.

They lose focus under pressure.
They beat themselves up after mistakes.
They work harder, but feel stuck in the same spot.
They wonder if they’re “good enough.”

And as parents, we feel the weight too. We see them struggle. We watch the comparisons. We secretly wonder if we’re doing enough to give them an edge.

That’s when we need to pause and remember: the most important edge isn’t physical—it’s mental.

My Why

I’m Tyler Lennon—a Certified Mental Performance Mastery Coach, Certified Mental Edge Method Coach, and member of the Maxwell Leadership Certified Team. But before all of that, I’m a father.

And from that perspective, I see it clearly: sports are temporary, but the lessons are eternal. Every practice, every win, every setback is shaping who our kids are becoming—not just as athletes, but as leaders.

That’s why I coach. To help athletes break through mental barriers, strengthen resilience, and develop an elite mindset they’ll carry for life.

The 90-Day 1-on-1 Coaching Program

This isn’t a quick fix—it’s a proven process rooted in the 10-Pillars of Mental Performance Mastery. In our 1-on-1 work, I walk athletes through each pillar, helping them develop the tools and habits that unlock consistent performance.

The 10 Pillars we focus on together include:

Elite Mindset
Motivation and Commitment
Focus and Awareness
Self-Control and Discipline
Process Over Outcome
Mental Imagery and Meditation
Routines and Habits of Excellence
Time Management and Organization
Leadership
Right Culture

Over 90 days, athletes don’t just learn about these principles—they learn how to live them. The result is sharper focus, unshakable confidence, and resilience that shows up on the field and in life.

Not ready to commit fully? Athletes can begin with the 3-Session Starter and experience the difference for themselves.

Why This Matters for Parents

We’ve all been there—comparing where our kids play, what level they compete at, or whether they’re “on track” compared to someone else’s child. But deep down, we know the real question isn’t: